Friday, March 11, 2011

He Speaks Superhero

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The Gypsy Mama is hosting Five Minute Friday.

Here are the rules:
We just write. For five minutes flat.

Today’s topic is “I feel the most loved when…”



I hung up the phone rather curtly after I said I love you. I whipped my minivan around the corner, my heart racing, for the last spot in the entire parking lot. Pulling in between those two white lines my soul felt I had just crossed a finish line, outsmarting the luxury vehicle in front of me. I pulled the keys from the ignition, grabbed the stroller already set up, and pounced it on the pavement. It is hard to move three active boys in snow gear, each hauling a backpack, up a long side walk to the front doors.

I was questioned at the front desk about our final destination. Frustrating to be stopped in a hurry. Why couldn't she be efficient as me? Did she not see my son in a swimming cap? Fast and furious we sped past her, sprinting for an elevator that was stuck. So I threw the door open to the stairs, and sent the older two corraling down the flight. I urged the eldest to undress his brother at the pool deck, while I dragged the stroller backward down an entire flight of stairs.

In the lobby of the pool  deck, I finished flying the clothes off my son, down to his swim trunks. Swim lessons in Massachusetts at night with three kids in the dead of Winter? What was I thinking?

Finally. He was in the pool just as the lessons began. I relaxed. I wasn't running anymore. Now, just to manage the wriggling toddler and the chatty first grader, and hold a conversation with the interested mother next to me.

And then I saw him. My heart stopped, and then it sung. Straight from the airport, straight from his delayed flight, in just an oxford shirt, sans winter coat. I announced to the entire pool lobby, "I have just been rescued!!"

I feel most loved when he speaks his love language to me, not mine. Forgetting my sharp goodbye in the parking lot, he came straight to the poolside to lend me his hands. He said not a word, and lifted the wriggling baby from my lap and held him in his arms as he watched the swimming son through the window. Despite my frazzled, broken communication, he showed up.

STOP.

30 comments:

  1. That is so beautiful, and how I envy it!

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  2. What a beautiful post - I love the line about him speaking his love language, what an important thing to understand.

    Thanks for sharing! :)

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  3. Stopped by from 5 Minute Fridays. A great post about married life!

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  4. This is great! I love this idea. I can't resist I had to jump in on the fun!

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  5. I love this. That is love! Anytime we love in a language differnt than ours, that is true love because it causes us to stretch.

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  6. So precious to be rescued, isn't it . . . just as our Heavenly Father does.

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  7. So open and honest.....so true of life with little ones!! Isn't it wonderful when the people who love us the most truly can see past our imperfections and understand what we need most....and then bless that to us instead of getting upset!! That is truly love!

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  8. I loved it. Such a great picture. It is so great to be rescued by the ones that love us most. Thanks for leaving a comment on my blog.

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  9. You told such a meaningful story in just five minutes - how awesome! Thank you for blessing me with your words!

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  10. Ah, yes, to be loved just because we are.

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  11. I love this picture of true love in action! Sounds like you guys have a great marriage.

    I love your header graphics, and I love that you live in Boston! Been there many times. I was born and raised in Massachusetts, and so your current state will always be my favorite.

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  12. I love the story you told. I have three girls, 4, 3 and 7 months so I totally know what you mean about being rescued!!!

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  13. Oh, that's just wonderful. I think your husband speaks my love language too. :)

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  14. Your husband rocks. He knew. And that's awesome.

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  15. HA! 3 boys to swim lessons. just in time. I noted and appreciated. Perfection!
    I bought our SUV, which my husband claims I treat as an RV due to amount of stuff in it because it has a tight turning radius into parking spaces. Because I go fast due to the nick of time. No lie.
    Oh and how boys love their mamas and boy dads know what their mamas go through!
    Blessings in the snow and slush and minivans.
    Thanks for stopping by earlier.

    All thru Him
    Cin

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  16. Oh my gosh...this was awesome!!!! What an awesome daddy & hubby!

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  17. (thanks for stopping by and leaving such a sweet comment) i love this story. And I had to laugh when you said the front desk lady "Wasn't as efficient as I" I have to stop myself from thinking stuff like that all the time, especially when I am driving or dealing with customer service. beautiful story.

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  18. Sometimes the simplest thing can be such a blessing. With 5 kids I know what it is to be rescued too! YES!

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  19. This was amazing! And such a wonderful blessing for you when he showed up.

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  20. Loved this and the great story you told in a simple 5 minutes! Thanks for sharing!

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  21. Great honesty and detail in five minutes!

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  22. You have a very vivid way of writing. And it sounds like you have an awesome husband, too.

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  23. Wow! Beautiful prose, anticipation and satisfaction. Thank you for this post :)

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  24. What a great story...and a thoughtful husband!

    I keep meaning to do 5-minute Friday -- you've inspired me with this post!

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  25. Oh gosh - I GET this. I so totally and completely GET this. I know exactly that of which you write - the love language, the rescue, everything.

    Great writing speaks to the heart of the reader, allowing them to say "me too!"

    Also wanted to say thanks for cheering me on last week and over the weekend! I really needed that!

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  26. A full story in 5 minutes with lots of lively detail? Awesome! Great post, and I love the reference to "speaking his love language, not mine." It's a neat distinction to make.

    Also, thanks for visiting my blog! Really appreciate the comment. :)

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  27. He seriously needs teach a class on that to a few husbands I know. I will be the first to sign up my husband! HEHEHE! Great post! You know how good it was to talk to you the other day....REALLY GOOD. Thanks...more than you KNOW!

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